"Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end."
P.S: make out for someone
Friday, November 20, 2009
Today's Quote..
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Labels: [HeartSays]
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Song For Today
"Collide"
The dawn is breaking
A light shining through
You're barely waking
And I'm tangled up in you
Yeah
I'm open, you're closed
Where I follow, you'll go
I worry I won't see your face
Light up again
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the wrong words seem to rhyme
Out of the doubt that fills my mind
I somehow find
You and I collide
I'm quiet you know
You make a first impression
I've found I'm scared to know I'm always on your mind
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the stars refuse to shine
Out of the back you fall in time
I somehow find
You and I collide
Don't stop here
I lost my place
I'm close behind
Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the wrong words seem to rhyme
Out of the doubt that fills your mind
You finally find
You and I collide
You finally find
You and I collide
You finally find
You and I collide
by Howie Day
Just watch the video here
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Labels: [HeartSays], [Song]
Monday, November 9, 2009
Ilalang n Me?
"Tempat yang cocok buat motret kamu tuh di ilalang.. Pas sama karakter kamu.."
But, why Ilalang?

Ilalang adalah sejenis rumput berdaun tajam yang tumbuh dan berbiak dengan cepat, dengan benih-benihnya yang tersebar cepat bersama angin, atau melalui rimpangnya yang lekas menembus tanah yang gembur. Tanaman yang tidak boleh diremehkan keberadaannya. Tetap dapat bertahan saat badai datang dan menerpa dimana batang-batang pohon telah patah karenanya dan sekelilingnya telah rusak.
What if I'm the Ilalang?
Then here I am.. seperti ilalang yang mampu bertahan dalam situasi apapun. Jika ilalang adalah seorang perempuan, maka Ilalang adalah sosok perempuan yang berusaha membawa dirinya ke dalam sebuah dunia, tumbuh dengan sendirinya menjalani kehidupannya dengan ketegaran yang tersisa dan kelemahanya membangunnya menjadi sosok yang tak mudah patah.
Mengukir cerita cita dan cinta tentang ilalang yang tegar, yang menguak suara hati nurani seorang perempuan sebagai ilalang yang tangguh meski tetap menghangat dalam terik matahari di tengah padang yang luas dan menggigil bersama bekunya malam.
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Labels: [Misc]
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Weekend@Office
Ngintip dari wikipedia, workaholic means "a person who is addicted to work". Ada yang mengerti maksud sebenarnya? Positif atau negatif kah? Hmm.. Depend on your own perspective.. :)
Let see.. Seperti apa yang baru gw alami minggu ini.. It's 7 days working!! So hate to say this, but that happened. Baru kali ini seumur-umur kerja masuk di hari Minggu - yang menurut gw dari dulu haram buat gw lakonin - tapi hari ini.. Yep, here I am.. at the office until night on Sunday.. :(
Mungkin dari sisi positif, gw cm pengen jadi orang yg bisa bertanggung jawab atas sesuatu yang seharusnya memang menjadi bagian dari pekerjaan gw. Tapi di sisi lain, gw ngerasa terlalu berlebihan untuk menghabiskan almost my time at office selama seminggu penuh. Kapan gw istirahatnya yak? Hummmpphh..
Ada rasa senang bisa menyelesaikan pekerjaan dengan sebaik-baiknya tapi tak terasa badan pun kemakan karena ngga ada istirahat yang cukup di tiap harinya.. Dan akhirnya insomnia itu datang lagi..
Satu yang pasti.. If you feel you still can handle it, so just do it.. But stop if you already over the limit..
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Labels: [Workz]
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
I am Social Realists
Type:
Social Realists find it very difficult to cope with conflicts and criticism - harmony is their elixir of life. Acknowledgement and esteem are very important to this type. Differentiation on the other hand is not necessarily one of their strong points. At work and in partnerships, they are loyal, committed and always there when needed. They find it easy to make friends due to their open, warm manner and they have a large circle of friends. In love, they are faithful and attentive and care for their partners with a great deal of imagination and sensitivity. Social Realists show their feelings openly and honestly. Should a relationship break up, they tend to blame themselves. That is why they find it very difficult to end a partnership even if it has not fulfilled their requirements for some time.
Social Realists are more conservative types. They have a set system of values and rules which is orientated to the prevailing traditions. They prefer clear, structured surroundings and work processes; they find too much change und unrest unpleasant. Their strong points are carefulness and reliability and not so much flexibility and spontaneity. Social Realists are open-minded towards anything new only to a limited extent. But, should one be looking for someone to fulfil a task reliably and exactly, they are the right persons.
Adjectives which describe your type: extroverted, practical, sentimental, planning, emotional, temperamental, energetic, tradition-conscious, loyal, helpful, devoted, reliable, caring, objective, thorough, organised, warm-hearted, open, friendly, sociable, chummy, obliging, self-sacrificing, public-spirited, sensitive, kind, demanding
Carier:
The Social Realist is the most social among all personality types. For you, it is essential to choose a profession where you can deal with as many people as possible. You recharge your batteries with the help of people contact and the personal exchanges needed for your very special talents to unfold. You are the prototype of the caring person in the positive sense, because you love to act on behalf of others and care for them. If you have the impression that there is a way to contribute by improving the quality of their life, it satisfies you more than anything.
For your type, the feeling to be needed, loved, and appreciated is more than vitally necessary. Therefore, working in seclusion is not for you. It is just too much counter to your extroverted nature, and your need for interpersonal interaction.You have the best ideas during dialogues with others, as they stimulate your creativity. Instead of developing abstract aid projects with the help of a drawing board, you prefer to engage yourself on the frontlines with person to person contact. For you, it is important to see the results of your work so you can go home feeling that you (again) made the world a better place - at least a bit.
You are a born team player. You are open and communicative, easily integrating yourself into group hierarchies. For your personality type, harmony is the keyword in your personal, as well as in your professional life. Since conflicts and power struggles seriously stress you making it difficult for you to attend to your tasks, you should put your emphasis on working in a stress free, respectful, and affectionate environment. Working environments continuously affected by tough infighting, and where competitive conflicts are intense represent too great a strain.
When choosing your job, it is important to make sure that your environment is characterized by chances for harmonious togetherness. Your warmth, your excellent empathy, and your readiness to help see to it that groups generally accept you quickly, and that you become an appreciated contact person for all problems and miseries of others. Because you tend to listen, comfort, and encourage, you are always the first to hear about your colleagues’ professional and private worries. Don’t overdo it. First of all, you are very sensitive taking their problems too much to heart, and secondly, is important that your work does not suffer from your social engagements.
No other type is as loving, attentive, and committed a partner as you. Many authors describe your type as the most personable and endearing of all: caring, sensitive, and always making sure that others are comfortable in your presence. For you, investing a lot in your relationship, and totally committing yourself to another person goes without saying. You enjoy assuming responsibilities, and that applies to your partnership, as well. When you encounter hic-ups in your relationship, the first things you look for are ways to change yourself.
You were born with the need to take care of the person you love most - to the best of your ability - and to do everything to make him/her comfortable. You create a comfortable home with the feeling of security and intimacy for both of you. To please and surprise your partner, you have an astounding sense for sharing small and frequent signs of your love. Your antenna for his/her needs is almost eerie, and sometimes you almost trip over yourself with eagerness when it is important to you to meet his/her needs. In the long run, your own needs are frequently neglected when you have a partner who prefers taking over, or who does not care for you as sensitively as you care for him/her.
Love:
Any partner is going to be overwhelmed by your sensitive and exuberant nature. Because you often like to talk about things close to your heart you are not stingy with compliments and assurances of your love. You are the most emotional and passionate of the Realists. The power of your feelings often carries you away. With you, this is not just lip service because you also prove your love with deeds. Whoever is with you can always rely on you. Your fidelity and loyalty toward your partner are extraordinary and unshakeable. Comparative studies have often indicated that Social Realists lead the list of the sixteen types in the durations of their marriages. For you, a relationship represents a life-long obligation; you don’t enter into it lightly and expect stability and reliability from your partner, as well. If you are disappointed, it hurts you even more than any other of the personality types.
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